Forgive ...But never forget.

After all has been said and done, the dust has settled and lyfe is back on track.The time you needed to heal has finally come . There is no time limit for you to heal and don't let anyone rush you.Don't let it consume your lyfe either. Begin by taking small baby steps, Focus on yourself and your family, reveal as much as you can when you are ready. Begin to rebuild your lyfe.Do things that will help make you feel whole again. Love and pamper your self by not rushing into a new relationship. When you feel ready to allow yourself to forgive your abuser do so. It is one of the stages that will assist in your healing. You don't have to tell the other person unless you want to. By forgiving, you take away the power that person has to keep you angry and reliving the pain. All domestic violence is not the same although it has the same effect, the level of violence you received can only be measured by you. Forgive for YOU...but never forget